Smiling outside, frowning inside
I would rather make the people around me happy. What's the point of telling dozens of people, "Hey I'm sad, cheer me up."? Ya maybe I would do that to the significant other, but in the meantime self-healing is the best way out, for the foreseeable future in fact.
But that's just me. I'd appreciate it if my friends show me upfront if they're upset. At least it'd be easier for me to cheer them up. But on the other hand, if I cheer friends up all the time, then I need not wait until they are sad before cheering them up.
So keep smiling. It makes a difference. To you and people around you.
But that's just me. I'd appreciate it if my friends show me upfront if they're upset. At least it'd be easier for me to cheer them up. But on the other hand, if I cheer friends up all the time, then I need not wait until they are sad before cheering them up.
So keep smiling. It makes a difference. To you and people around you.
posted by Zhane at 10:31 AM
2 Comments:
yeah i tried sthing to tt effect but one fren recently told me that tt doesnt help...gotta face the sadness etc so if u show that u only want to hear or talk abt happy stuff, then they would not even approach u abt the sad stuff etc
but i can see where ur coming from...our intentions are good...but sometimes ppl want us to face the sadness with them too
Sort of reciprocation ya?
If you have the power to make someone smile, then I assume it's ok if he/she doesn't tell me the sad story. As long as you made him/her happy with your presence.
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